You can have Him - Type Shit.. [Trade Ins - Part 2]

So...I seem to seriously attrackt psychopaths.
Where in the rotting hell have you been hidin to just pop up when
I need you the least? So homeboy is cool with me, we're buddies..for God's sake..But he's attracted to me..And I know that, all this sleezy whatever i love you talk and oh you're so sexy shit..I hear it, but at the same time I ain't hearin it...You know I'm sayin..You can hear shit, but you won't respond to it..And You can hear it..but you're not feelin it...Like seriously..if him and I were the only XX/XY chromosomes
left on this planet, Evolution would END...

So I know he is on some bullshit with his girl, and of course he's usually tellin me how he isn't ready for marriage with her..(3 1/2 yrs relationship) and she's the type of girl that'd do anything for the dude..and of course she wants to get hooked...

Hooked - on some - i have him and he isn't goin anywhere type shit..- by marriage.. And he's the type of fella, who's indecisive as ass, and doesn't wanna get on that "i ain't goin nowhere" type shit..cause he holds his doors open..just eventually for another person to come around, and take him away. So..this relationship is either based on sexuality solely..or it's just

consuetude...

A bad habit.. He's constantly complaining about her, (the little shits..you know the looks and the way she's buggin out on the jealousy tip..and seriously i could care less.) and dealing with other females she
doesn't know about. And this is the regularity about dudes like him..
Thats what females run into..And I been there..and he ..like Dana
Gilmore said on DPJam, he was on that Donell Jones -
"I don't know where I wanna be" type shit..that almost killed my braincells...
because we end up wondering and doing more and more to please this person and make them ours..But in the end..
all of this confusion talk is just a bunch of idiotic crap composted by an idiotic person who is simply waiting for something
better to come around to leave your ass alone..or come back to you after he realized the trade-in he picked, could never reach up to you...And this is the man..that I call..the love of my life...along with this Donell Jones type shit.
That's what we end up feeling while trying to analyze the situation and our heart is bleeding and bleeding and..we lose so much blood , we eventually lose ourselves.


(Read - trade ins..shit's just everywhere man..) .



And she..i don't KNOW her..But she's the type of female who may discuss everything with
her homegirls and seek depth in HIM but he's just too shallow to see the heck she wants...
More than anything, I'm sure he isn't even trying..Okay..so things weren't going great
for the past weeks between em..by what he's told me..And i kept telling him it's his own fault.. He's started to get accustomed to some older woman who is in their common circle of friends.. Again..his girlfriend doesn't know...he's on some serious shit..and if he wasn't a friend..I might as well put this dude in the place for dissing his girl like that. Because i've been through this and I know how it feels..

So i wake up today ..great busy Saturday..and I happen to not have spoken to the dude in about a month now due to business, and we're buddies and i know all about that.. "oh i care about u so much"..and "oh i love you"..and "oh let's get married" type shit.. So i kept skippin those lines, ignoring them..until he started talkin to me normally..

Okay..I happen to as well receive this text this morning..and i am caught up betweenthe need to bust out Laughing at this shit..and getting seriously MAD at him even putting me between the chairs. Cause ..for God's sake..yet again i don't have ANYTHING to do with this situation..I've known him for years, but at the same time I barely know him..Feel me?.




Girlfriend messages me:

Subject: u can have him... im done

i knoe u must have heard alot about me but I really am not the way
he says I am, that is his only way of trying to get to decent looking
females I knoe he wants to move u in and he loves u and all that shit,

I am practically giving him 2 u hunny, thank u 4 saving me from that
psychoatic fool I wasted 3 yrs of my life! have fun the both of u, by the way
tell him im terminating it!

he will knoe wut that means and i am finally over him thankxz "

So what do you respond to something like that....

First of all, I got fucking mad while chuckling at the same time at the ridiculousness
of the situation..For one..I don't know her..For two, i have never even once flirted with him.. for 3..this dude must be fucking nuts. So I chilled, and replied..

Subject: I'm not even slightly interested in ole boy.

I wanted to let you know, this shit isn't about me..maybe there's another fem. But i'm just his friend, I don't know what he told you.. But i have never been interested in him, even in a least bit.

What happened? I know yall been going through things and i know he's not always actin right.. I've always told him tobe respectful.

Don't worry girl, it's not about the way he feels for you,he loves you...Seriously,i don't want ole boy. He's just a friend to me.

And what's that thing with..he wants to move
me in? What the heck? I have my own place to stay girl..Move me in? Crazy? Why would i move in with him? This must be a misunderstanding.. What the went wrong?

I know there's some drama..but seriously girl, it isn't even about me..You should deal with him ánd talk about it... because it's straight fucked up..

No matter he's my friend and all.. that's not my style...He's taken and i could

care less about him, other than friendship wise. Talk to him cause i see something went wrong right here in communications.

Love "

This is this You can Have him type shit...

Man yall must be fucking crazy....craaaaaaazy.

And this is the reason why women cannot Trust..Trust in fucking what?
Empty promises? I can so feel homegirls words right now..Seriously..

This shit isn't about me..And i'm glad she ain't bothered to diss me
But i've been in the situation and i know how tough this is...And i've
been in her shoes once..And this is the hardest way to walk..the hardest
steps to take...


This is by far the only thing men will never understand
about choices.Shit like that is killing you and your faith to

find someone truthful.

Peace